How to trust your child’s decisions about studying abroad

1. Trust is a two-way affair: Trust is never a one-way affair; you trust your child’s decision to study abroad and communicate your faith in his judgment. In turn, he will feel more confident and empowered in his journey. This journey is similar to the experience on the ocean. It is as if you are standing on the shore of an ocean full of unknowns, but with endless opportunities and experiences to last a lifetime. Therefore, parents must understand that their fear should not overshadow their child’s excitement and let him embark on the adventure. (Image source: Pinterest/kqed)

2. Accept their decisions: Your child may decide to study abroad, even if this decision is not the one you would have wanted. They may choose a country you are not very familiar with or a program that seems quite strange to you. Accept these decisions as valid, because they have most likely put a lot of thought into them. Always remember that it is their journey and you should support them. (Image source: Pinterest/nerdwallet)

3. Emotional support: The dream of continuing their studies abroad can sometimes be overwhelming for your child and they will need your support. Simply be there to listen to what they have in mind and be available to help motivate them and congratulate them on their achievements. Supporting them with words and believing in their abilities could help them navigate this new stage. (Image source: Pinterest/PsychNews)

4. Preparing for the practicalities: Offer your child support with the practicalities of studying abroad, such as financial, housing, transportation, and more. It may be pertinent for you to address these responsibilities, but your help can ensure that they don’t overlook the following points. This type of working partnership can help reduce their stress and build their confidence in their ability to make the best decisions. (Image source: Pinterest/EconomicTimes)

5. Navigating the unknown: Although the unknown is daunting, the silver lining is that it brings with it many opportunities to take advantage of. Therefore, allowing your child to continue their education abroad allows them to take on new projects for their bright future. This journey transforms students from the inside out, both personally and professionally. Moreover, this journey also allows them to become independent and make their own decisions, whether small or big. (Image source: Pinterest/aauprague)

6. Say “connected”: Letting go is essential, but that doesn’t mean you abandon your child when he or she travels abroad. Therefore, you need to maintain contact and a strong connection with him or her. This will provide emotional support and allow him or her to survive alone miles away from home. Modern technology has made this even easier as you can connect with him or her via video call and feel his or her presence. Plus, you can also visit your child on his or her vacation. (Image source: Pinterest/creativemarket)

7. Work together on research: It’s essential to make sure your child is in the lead, but being a part of their research can give you both peace of mind. Research colleges, programs, and places with them. Not only will they let you know what your child likes and dislikes, but they’ll also allow you to pass on knowledge and advice that may not seem trustworthy. (Image source: Pinterest/cinilmaria)

8. Celebrate your trip: Last but not least, enjoy this exciting process with your child. Education abroad is a great achievement in a person’s life and a proof of the effort they have put into their studies. Feel happy and proud of them and look forward to the wonderful things and advancements they will experience on this particular trip. (Image source: Pinterest/exprenzapvtltd)

Contributions from: Mamta Shekhawat, Founder of Gradding.com (Image source: Pinterest/wsj)